Thursday, August 28, 2014

Brain Dead - How 50 Cent and A Trio of Donkeys Helped Reveal Illiteracy Stigma and Our Nation's Hypocrisy



           






           I don’t of any other way to begin this entry than to say how terribly disappointed I am right now in our society. I am well aware of the political dysfunction, racism, sexism, forced occupation and other human rights violations that take place in our world today. However at this moment, I am deeply disturbed by the current events surrounding boxing champion, Floyd Mayweather. In short, recording artist 50 cent, has taken the popularity of the ALS ice bucket challenge and instead challenged his alleged former friend, Mayweather to read 1 page of a book; the implication being that Floyd can't read. (I liberally use the word "alleged" because both men have made overwhelming riches largely by masterfully promoting and over-hyping feuds, sometimes even fabricating rivalries altogether). Soon after, a New York radio station released previously unheard audio of what is alleged to be Floyd Mayweather struggling to read a radio promo. What followed next was a wave of millions sharing videos, pictures and posts that mocked Mayweather's apparent struggles.
    

    I know that there are millions of people out there who have found strange joy and pleasure in rubbing Floyd’s nose in his own alleged reading deficiencies. Some of you may have innocently and naively jumped on the bandwagon, thinking that it’s nothing more than good fun. Some may have an understandable disdain for some of Mr. Mayweather’s personal indiscretions that include his history of domestic assault and his own viral bully tactics (remember when he thought it was cute to take  pictures with  Rick Ross’son?)  There are some who may simply believe that what goes around comes around. Now that may have some truth to it but regardless of his previous actions, our collective glee where adult illiteracy and reading challenges are concerned  is disturbing and dangerous for a number of reasons and it says a lot more about us than it does about him.





It Didn't "Get Better" 




       We are such fickle human beings aren't we? Remember a couple years ago? Remember what seemed like an unprecedented wave of children and teens taking their lives because of the pressure and depression that came with bullying in the internet age? Millions rushed to their keyboards, cellphones and cameras to type, tweet and record words of comfort and to petition those who suffered to trust that “it gets better”.
No, Floyd Mayweather is not a child, but a viral campaign to mock an adult’s inability to read at a certain level of proficiency bullying. Period.
      We automatically rush to the defense of so called “nerds” and smart kids who are bullied for having an unquenchable thirst for academia. But who in the hell is going to speak out for those who are traumatized and victimized by the much more pervasive crime that comes from the scorn and stigma that haunts children and adults who struggle with learning??!

      What’s worse, is that while we celebrate a man’s lack of quality education with laughter, vine parodies and Kevin Hart memes, we foolishly forget that many of us are responsible for the conditions that create and promote adult illiteracy.

Started From Under The Bottom
     

         Floyd Mayweather is a product of a complicated upbringing between New Brunswick, NJ and Grand Rapids Michigan. As a result, Mayweather did not finish high school. He dropped out. And even though I could detail the economic struggles of cities like New Brunswick and states like Michigan, it almost doesn't matter where he’s from. Floyd Mayweather is an American and we know that in America, more times than not, one’s access to a quality education goes hand in glove with, with your zip code, tax bracket and  your race.  For centuries, this country has been shamefully insolvent when it comes to providing equal access to quality education. We have failed Floyd Mayweather Jr. and many Americans long ago with our complacency and because of our negligence to desegregate, depoliticize and demonetize education access.
          Where we have failed, Floyd placed his hands in gloves and was both talented enough and fortunate enough to have been able to create a way out for himself, his family and all other friends along the way who he has been able to support with the hundreds of millions of dollars that he has earned in his career.

     So let me get this straight. You turn on the news. You complain about the state of our children and the seeming hopelessness of their future. You turn on the documentary“Waiting For Superman” and shake your head “no” in disbelief and outrage perhaps even sheding a tear because of the brokenness of the educational system in America. But when the evidence of the broken system that you disapprove of shows up in the form of a thirty-something year old, millionaire athlete, you laugh? No, the joke is on you and on all of us.

   What is equally hypocritical is that many of us watch boxing. And if you don’t, chances are that you watch MMA, pro wrestling, or football. And even in the event that you maintain the position that you don’t like sports, there is still a great chance that you have gone to a bar, club, Super Bowl host city, or Las Vegas to participate in some the activities that help to justify the monetization of volatile sports.
    Now boxing, wrestling, mma and football are known as "contact sports"; athletic contests that require the participants to collide into each other like bowling balls into pins. The brain trauma, cognitive failures and even occasional death that comes from these activities has been well documented. Yet, we still watch in revelry while removing our empathy from the participants themselves. Unless of course his name is Muhammad Ali. When the great human being and life force that is Muhammad Ali displays mental struggles that are the result of the show he put on for us, we feel sadness. While we admire the bravery with which he fought the American government and now, Parkinson's syndrome triggered by his boxing career, we meet his health decline with heartwarming empathy and regret.

 So let me ask you this. What is the difference between a man who struggles with articulation because of interrupted brain stimulation and a man who struggles to articulate himself because he wasn't stimulated enough? I’ll let you answer that for yourself. Nevertheless, our audacity to laugh at another's pain is truly appalling.  

The Donkeys Of Today

        Then there are the cowards at New York City’s 105.1 FM, specifically
Dj Envy, Angela Yee and Charlemagne; a collective that goes by the moniker “The Breakfast Club”. For a show that on many occasions promotes certain topics and themes that add no substantive value to our society to then  position itself as anti intellectualism is truly amazing. For a show that ego strokes certain artists, reality TV stars, celebrity personalities and pseudo-porn stars, all of whom have varying levels of intelligence, to then single out Floyd Mayweather is inconsistent. And for a show whose website positions their “Hoe Hall of Fame” directly next to the Black History Month section to then turn around and pretend to be the bastions of higher learning is both dangerous and despicable.  

  Now “The Club” has been incredibly successful in appealing to the desires of a gossip/scandal/celebrity obsessed culture. Because of this, The Breakfast Club and the digital cabinet of poison known as worldstarhiphop, have positioned themselves as one of the most popular online sources of celebrity news and hip-hop/viral entertainment. One of their signature segments is "The Donkey of the Day", an approximately 3-5 minute verbal undressing of whoever Charlamagne has decided has made a mule's behind of themselves.
 
     Anyone who has heard or seen The Club's popular radio show before is very familiar with their jive. DJ Envy and  Angela Yee play the roles of the “good cops” (and by good cops I mean silent instigators) while the “bad cop”, Charlemagne, masquerades as the no holds barred, indiscriminate keeper of all things real. But very rarely does keep anything truly real.
         You see, Charlemagne often picks low hanging fruit.  Meaning he pokes his chest out and only chooses to be extremely critical of people and ideas where it's relatively safe to do so.
    So it’s not really bold or revolutionary when he confronts Kanye West about his rantings because he doesn't view him as a threat to his person or his ability to make money. It isn't newsworthy when Charlemagne rants about Kim Kardashian or other reality TV “stars” because he feels intellectually safe enough to do so. And it isn’t brave of him and his cohorts to pile on Floyd Mayweather and his alleged reading troubles because
#1: He knows that many others are doing the same &
#2: He knows that Floyd  would probably face further scorn if he decided to seek reprisal against Charlemagne and not 50 Cent.

      And if the hypocrisy and cowardice aren't damning enough, how about the phoniness and lack of professionalism? It is  extremely two-faced and tacky  for Clear Channel, WWPR, and The Breakfast Club to think that it’s ok to betray the confidentiality and trust of an individual by harmfully leaking the recording of him trying to do you a professional favor.

The Pot Calling Out The Kettle
       
        50 Cent obviously deserves great blame in this saga as he after all is the instigator. But surprisingly, 
I’m not really shocked or even angry with 50’s actions. As I mentioned earlier, a large part of his music and public persona stems from his ability to manufacture and market conflict. So to be surprised at his taking the popularity of a movement started to benefit the common good (the ice bucket challenge) and to use it for his self-serving evil is kind of like being shocked to see a peacock sporting a coat of multi-colored feathers…. It’s kind of like their thing. 


      What I was surprised about was 50’s lack of empathy for adult illiteracy. I was never really a big fan of 50 as an artist. But I will never forget the moment when I first felt such strong empathy for him and dare I say began to root for him.
       It was at the press conference held by him and Compton's native son, The Game. The press conference was to serve as an end to their ongoing feud at the time which started to get out of hand. As 50 stepped to the podium to read his prepared statement, my heart crumbled for the brother. Yes he read the words. But the slow pacing and barely there tone of voice made it clear, that 50, a man from Jamaica Queens  who beat improbable odds to attain great success had a reading problem. An obvious reading problem. A tear of love and sadness formed in my eye as I saw the man in obvious discomfort. Now I guess maybe he improved his literacy out of the necessity for his then growing film career and his own commendable desire to improve expand himself. I just don't see why he now assumes the authority to insult another's difficulty. But I suppose that even when you have seemingly conquered your pain, hurt people still hurt people. 




Complacency By The Numbers

Illiteracy and learning disabilities in general are no laughing matter!
   According to  Department of Education, National Institute of Literacy’s 2013 report %14 of American Adults are illiterate, a number that comes to some 32 million individuals.
21% of adults read below a 5th grade level. And those are just the stats on illiteracy. There are other learning disabilities like dyslexia that are underrepresented in the conversation about mis-education. According to the International Dyslexia Association, dyslexia is the most common cause for reading, writing and spelling disabilities. Of people with reading difficulties, some 70% are estimated to be dyslexic. Neither the soul of our country nor the souls the persons affected can afford for us to keep these numbers conveniently pushed into the recesses of our consciousness. We also must stop practicing the double standard that allows us to love some in spite of their challenges while needlessly ridiculing others. 

Anthony Hopkins
Whoopi Goldberg
Jay Leno
Kiera Knightley
Steve Jobs
Richard Branson (Chairman and founder of Virgin)
Paul Orfalea   (Kinkos founder)
Charles Schwab (billionaire investment banker)

    These are just a few of the public figures who have been brave enough to share their experiences, trials and triumphs with dyslexia. Much like these brave folks,Floyd Mayweather and anyone else should be afforded the opportunity to be accepted despite their learning disabilities and not suffocated by the stigma. Dyslexic, illiterate or otherwise. 


     As I stated earlier, I don't know if the origins of  this public shaming are real or just another crafty publicity stunt. I don't know if Floyd Mayweather is dyslexic, illiterate or even neither. What I do know is that despite our best efforts to act as if we are anti-bullying or pro education reform, far too many of us have been revealed to be contributors to the stagnation on both of these fronts. Literacy is one of the fundamental keys to the expectation of a good quality of life. So whether it be a a prince or a prisoner, a boxer or a banker, seek love, understanding and assistance on behalf of our brothers and sisters with learning challenges. Or else just be a peace with the fact that the next time you laugh at someone-else's learning struggles, as Fred Sanford would say, it's really you who is the "big dummy". 

-Love-

Sources
National Center For Learning Disabilities
World Literacy Foundation
National Center For Education Statistics
Dyslexia Stats-Learning Inside Out
HuffPost Books
HuffPost Healthy Living
Stat Brain
Business Insider

Sunday, October 13, 2013

What Makes You so Strong? Lessons in Faith: From Adrian Peterson to Elizabeth Smart



Good Sunday to you all.  
       
      It is my hope that as the sunlight peeked through your blinds and caressed your cheek, that you arose from your slumber with a happy heart, an attitude of gratitude and an open mind, ready to seize the day. Yet, while I wish this kind of serenity and peace of mind for you all, I acknowledge that there are many who began this day in with pain on their hearts, sadness on their minds and a seemingly unshakeable weight on their spirit. We all go through what the great Donny Hathaway lamented are “Trying Times”. 
Now as a man who lives a life of faith, I personally know how hard it can be for us to maintain our faith when in the midst of despair. Faith calls us to reach past convention and ask “why not?” but fear in the midst of challenges can make you cry out “why me”?
 Thankfully, knowing how fragile our faith can be at times, God uses some of his children here on earth as examples of inspiration and hope. 
This week, another such example emerged. Look no further than the man wearing all purple.

No, I'm not talking about Barney the Dinosaur. And I'm certainly not referencing "Grimace", that dastardly, googly eyed fast food mascot that scared the bajeesus out of me to run and hide under a McDonald’s table when I was a child (….ok, I lied-that happened yesterday). I’m referring to Minnesota Vikings’ running back and  future Football Hall of Famer, Adrian Peterson.




You may have heard that the 28 year old Peterson has to face the painful task of planning a funeral for his 2 year old son as he died from injuries caused by severe head trauma. Details on the case are still scant but it appears that the child was the victim of abuse by the hands of his mother’s boyfriend. When addressing the media just hours after his son’s untimely passing, Adrian displayed a remarkable level of control, focus and poise with tons of lights, cameras, microphones and digital devices pointed in his direction.
But, how? How does a parent whose child was murdered gather the strength not only to carry on, but also to face a national media onslaught that he really does not have to endure?
 What makes you so strong, Adrian Peterson? 


Take a quick glimpse at his life and you will soon see.
 

   As if growing up in poverty in east Texas weren’t testimony enough, he witnessed his older brother being killed by a drunk driver when Adrian was just 7 years old. At the age of 13 his father was incarcerated on money laundering charges rendering him unable to guide his son through the most critical years of a teenage boy’s life and preventing him from being able to watch his son play football until his Junior year with the University of Oklahoma. On that day, Adrian broke his collarbone, ending his season. The night before his NFL combine (combine= a battery of speed, endurance and strength drills used to help determine an amateur player’s pro value) he received word that his half brother was murdered.
And probably most infamously (before last week), Peterson, by now an NFL superstar, tore two ligaments in his knee and thus his season ended.

“But that’s not how the story ends….”


Now, Adrian could have understandably shut down, broke down and given up. But when Adrian’s brother was murdered before the combine, he prayed throughout the night. Leaning on his faith and on the “everlasting arms” he found the strength to carry on, performing remarkably at the combine and cementing his positioning as a top pro pick. 
And in 2012 after rehabbing from what can be and has been a career ending (if not altering) knee injury, he returned the next season and had one of the greatest individual seasons of ANYONE in sports history; leading his team to the playoffs and running just 8 yards short of the NFL, all time, single season record.

 In a society where we are so quick to pat ourselves on the back and bask in the shallow and fickle pools of public praise, Adrian gave his historic comeback perspective by saying that “anything is possible if you continue to put God first”.
But now, in the wake of his darkest hour what allows him to carry on?  How can he possibly find the strength to go to work on a world stage and play for his team just less than a week removed from this unspeakable tragedy? 

What makes you so strong Adrian Peterson?? 
His answer? “The good Lord won’t give you anything that you can’t handle. So I’m built tough”.   
It is his faith that gives him the will to continue.

And it’s not just Adrian Peterson.
This week was filled with many testimonies of courage in the wake of incredible adversity and horrific circumstances.
Look to the courage of Elizabeth Smart. 



 Not enough platitudes and praise can be heaped upon this resilient, selfless and phenomenal woman, now an activist for the kidnapped, raped and abused.
You may remember that in 2002, Ms. Smart (now Mrs. Smart-Gilmour), was stolen from her Salt-Lake City bedroom when she was only 14 years old. For 9 hellacious months she endured torment, torture, and rape at the hands of her manipulative kidnappers. That she had the fortitude to survive such indignity is remarkable enough, but Elizabeth has done the seemingly impossible and turned her tragedy into triumph; becoming an inspiration to young women everywhere. But, how??  How does one survive the brutality of rape and isolation for 9 months? How does a 14 year old girl who is still growing in her faith make spiritual peace when your abductors are constantly telling you that your being shamed and secluded is “God’s work”? How does someone who experienced the worst private violations imaginable gain the strength to share and relive the details publically?          What makes you so strong, Elizabeth Smart??

Her answer? “I knew that God loves me and that he would never abandon me…There were moments when I felt so low, I had no one to turn to, but God”.

 
Elizabeth has dedicated her life to advocating legislation for the protection of the abducted and has shared her time and spirit by speaking to youths in order to stimulate awareness and empowerment. This week she has released a book detailing book her path towards overcoming her ordeal.

No weapon formed against you will prosper!!

Elizabeth Smart has so eloquently described the message that motivates her mission. She says, "All of us have the potential inside us to reach so much further and grow so much more than any of us think we can".      
     
   I have been blessed to have friends who are just as resilient as Elizabeth. These individuals are a tremendous inspiration to me. There’s my homie, Mariah. Mariah has battled through losing a parent at a young age and surviving homelessness and varying degrees of economic uncertainty. Today she is a strong, brilliant young woman, ever climbing the ladder of her career. I know from our many conversations that it is her faith that makes her so strong.

    
              
       And then there’s my buddy Katrina. I recently learned that Katrina was involved in a terrible accident that left her with life threatening and life altering injuries. After enduring months and months of grueling physical and speech therapy, she has recovered and preparing to start a family of her own!! Congrats, Kat!! I’ll be honest, I don’t know what Katrina’s relationship with God is or if she even has one. But I do know from her testimony that it is within the love and faith of her family, loved ones and doctors, that she found comfort and confidence to carry on.

    I don’t know what your personal circumstances are. Perhaps the loss or eminent loss of a loved one is causing you great despair. Perhaps the ghost of disease, benign or malignant has cast a shadow over your spirit. I know that disease may act as both thief and warden.  It cannot only steal your joy but also places your imagination of tomorrow under arrest by handcuffing you with the shackles of fear of today. Maybe you, like so many others have anxiety about money or even food insecurity. Perhaps you have habits that are destroying you in some way but you can’t seem to shake. Whatever your personal trials may be, know that you are not alone. Know that faith in better things to come can help to lighten your weary load. Know that you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you. And so I ask, what makes YOU so strong?




*The title and recurring theme of this entry were inspired by The critically acclaimed book “What Makes You So Strong: Sermons of Joy and Strength...  It was written by my beloved pastor Rev. Dr. Jeremiah A. Wright Jr. and is published by Judson Press. To purchase or find more info please visit http://www.judsonpress.com/